Veterans Day is a truly meaningful occasion for families in the United States, and it’s not just a day off school. It’s a time for honoring those who have served in the military. If you’re like me, you probably love bringing the family together to mark the day in a way that’s both respectful and fun.
There’s a strong tradition of military service in my family. I have served in the Army National Guard myself, and my father and several siblings and cousins have also served full time in the military. I think it’s important to have a special day to honor them for their service.
For a lot of families, watching a good movie can spark some really valuable conversations and remind everyone why Veterans Day matters. If you’re searching for the best family movies that match the spirit of Veterans Day, I’ve got some ideas to help you choose what to watch.
How Veterans Day Became a Time for Reflection
Veterans Day didn’t always go by this name. It actually started as Armistice Day, marking the end of World War I. The armistice was signed on November 11, 1918, signaling the end of fighting on the Western Front. In 1938, Armistice Day became a federal holiday dedicated to peace and remembering World War I veterans. After World War II and the Korean War, people realized that honoring just World War I vets didn’t quite cover it, so the holiday became Veterans Day in 1954. Since then, it’s been a day for thanking all American veterans, whether they served in peace or war.
My family always takes a moment on Veterans Day to talk about its history. Even a quick chat about why November 11 matters can shape the way kids see the holiday. Movies, I’ve found, offer an easy way to introduce both the challenging realities and the sacrifices veterans have made, without making things too heavy or scary for younger viewers.
Choosing Family-friendly Veterans Day Movies
War movies can range from intense and realistic to lighthearted and hopeful, so picking the right ones for a family movie night takes a little care. I usually look for films that show the courage and teamwork of service members, but steer clear of anything overly violent or emotionally overwhelming for kids. The goal is to encourage conversations, help kids develop empathy, and offer a glimpse into moments in history they might not learn about in school.
Some movies lean more toward adventure or humor, while others tell true stories in a gentle way. It really depends on the age of your kids and how much detail they’re ready for. These are a few things I keep in mind:
- Age Appropriateness: G, PG, or PG-13 rated films usually strike a good balance for families.
- Focus on Character and Values: Movies that shine a light on bravery, friendship, and hope seem to resonate most.
- Opportunities for Discussion: I like stories that spark questions from kids, so we can talk about the facts and feelings behind what we watched.
Good Movies to Teach Kids About War (Without Getting Too Intense)
When you’re teaching kids about war, you don’t have to pick films packed with battle scenes or scary moments. A number of family-friendly movies open the door to talking about service, sacrifice, and history in a more manageable way. Here are some great starters that have worked for my family or friends:
- Valor and Sacrifice: “A League of Their Own” (1992)
This one isn’t a war movie in the usual sense, but it’s set during World War II and shows how women stepped up on the home front. It’s inspiring, funny, and great for all ages. - Service and Teamwork: “McFarland, USA” (2015)
Again, not a battlefield movie, but it reveals how discipline, unity, and community spirit can help people overcome challenges; a lot like what veterans go through. - Animated Stories With Messages: “The Iron Giant” (1999)
This movie offers Cold War themes and the threat of war, wrapped in an accessible animated story about friendship, self-sacrifice, and peace. - Patriotism and Courage: “An American Tail” (1986)
This story about a family immigrating to the United States touches on hope and belonging. It makes a good jumping off point for talking about why people choose to serve.
It’s worth mentioning that even milder war movies deal with big topics. I always keep the remote nearby and pause if someone has a question or needs a break.
Best World War I Movies for Families
World War I doesn’t have as many family-focused movies as World War II, but a handful of films work really well for a Veterans Day family watch, especially if you want to focus on the history of Armistice Day. Most movies from this era try to mix real events with characters that younger audiences can relate to.
- “War Horse” (2011)
This Steven Spielberg movie is told through the eyes of a horse who witnesses the ups and downs of the First World War. The visuals are eye-catching, the story’s very touching, and there’s just enough suspense and emotion to keep older kids interested. Younger kids might need a hand with some sadder parts, but there’s no graphic violence. - “The Young Indiana Jones Chronicles” (TV series, 1992-1993)
Not exactly a movie, but perfect for learning about World War I in bite-size episodes. Indiana Jones finds himself swept up in adventures all over Europe; including the trenches. It’s full of action, history, and excitement without being too dark. If your kids love adventure, this is a pretty safe bet. - “Flyboys” (2006)
While this film is PG-13 and includes piloting scenes and some war action, it doesn’t go overboard on violence. It’s a fictional story based on the real-life Lafayette Escadrille, a squadron of American volunteer pilots in World War I France. Older kids and teens will probably get the most out of this one. - “Snoopy and the Red Baron” (Various Peanuts Specials)
Bizarre as it may sound, the classic Peanuts cartoons often feature Snoopy imagining himself as a WWI flying ace. These shorts make a fun, lighthearted way to bring up the era with younger kids, and they’re simply fun.
I’ve found that real-life documentaries are usually not the best fit for sensitive or younger viewers. For World War I, the above options keep things relatable and, most important, manageable for families.
Beyond WWI: Standout Veterans Day Movies for Families
World War II, the Vietnam War, and even some recent conflicts have inspired quite a few movies. Some of these work well for families looking to honor veterans, learn about history, or discuss what service really means. Here are several picks that suit a variety of ages and interests:
- “Miracle at St. Anna” (2008)
This film focuses on an all-Black unit in World War II, showing the courage and obstacles they faced. While it’s best for tweens and up, it provides meaningful lessons about teamwork and dignity. - “October Sky” (1999)
This coming-of-age movie is set during the Cold War, following a kid inspired to become a rocket scientist while his dad works in a coal mine and reflects on his service. It’s about chasing your dreams, but there’s plenty of room for patriotic conversations and talking about serving your country in different ways. - “Mulan” (1998)
This Disney film shows service, sacrifice, and courage in vivid animation and memorable songs. It’s a light and empowering way to discuss heroes, both real and legendary, with even the youngest in the family. - “Behind Enemy Lines” (2001)
Better for teens, this action-packed film tells the story of a Navy pilot shot down in hostile territory. It’s suspenseful but avoids most graphic content, focusing on survival and never giving up.
Everyone’s tolerance is different, so check sites like Common Sense Media for reviews and age recommendations to make sure you’re picking something that really works for your crew.
Ways to Make Your Movie Night Special
Turning Veterans Day movie night into a meaningful experience isn’t just about the film itself. It’s nice to add special touches to help a family connect, such as:
- Sharing a favorite story or family memory about a veteran we know
- Making snacks or treats inspired by the movie’s setting (think soft pretzels for a WWI movie, or apple pie for American classics)
- Setting aside a few minutes after the movie to talk about what everyone thought, what surprised them, or what they’d like to learn more about
- Topping off the evening by writing a thank you note or drawing a picture for veterans in your community or school
If you want to add even more meaning to your Veterans Day movie tradition, consider watching short video interviews featuring local veterans, or reading a short children’s book about service before or after the film. Adding a little context or family reflection goes a long way in building lasting memories and respect for the day.
Frequently Asked Questions About Veterans Day Movie Watching
Here are some quick answers to common questions I’ve heard from other parents and families:
Q: Should I show real war footage to kids on Veterans Day?
A: For younger kids, I’d stick with movies or documentaries made with families in mind. Real war footage can be very upsetting, so it’s best to wait until kids are older, and always preview it yourself first.
Q: How do I talk about tough topics if they come up during the movie?
A: I’ve found that acknowledging feelings, answering questions simply, and focusing on values like service and hope goes a long way. It’s okay to admit that war is complicated and hard to really get a sense of.
Q: Is it disrespectful to watch war-themed movies on Veterans Day instead of going to a parade or ceremony?
A: Not at all. Watching a respectful, thoughtful film that honors service can be just as meaningful as a public event, especially if it helps your family appreciate what veterans have given to our country.
Final Thoughts on Family Movies for Veterans Day
Veterans Day is a powerful chance to learn together and honor the people who’ve shaped our nation. Choosing a good family movie sets the mood for meaningful talks, makes history less distant, and helps kids grow empathy for those who protect and serve. No matter what you pick to watch, bringing everyone together and sharing the story is what really counts. If you have a favorite movie for Veterans Day or a family tradition you cherish, I encourage you to keep it going—and maybe add a new film to the mix this year. The most important thing is coming together to recognize the sacrifices and the stories behind this important day.